The day has
come. We have arrived in India!
This part of the Guide helps prepare you with what to expect
and how to navigate through a very different culture.
ARRIVING
& ADJUSTING
FIRST
IMPRESSIONS
India
will constantly challenge, perhaps change you. There is such a
juxtaposition between old and new, familiar and baffling. Yet India
can get into your blood like no other country. If you're like me,
after you return home, you'll miss India and experience even more
culture shock coming back to our country.
On
arrival in India, the first impressions can take you aback. The
exciting images of an ancient and richly diverse culture which
draw many visitors to India can be completely overwhelmed by
the immediate sensations which first greet you:
Pollution. All the cities seriously suffer from pollution.
Noise. Many
people find India incredibly noisy, as radios, TVs, and loudspeakers
seem to blare in unlikely places at all times. Automobiles, taxis,
and trucks all constantly use their horns instead of turn signals.
Smells. India has an almost baffling mixture of smells, from the richly
pungent and unpleasant to the delicately sublime.
Hassle.
As soon as you step out of your hotel, everyone seems to clamor
to sell you their services. Taxi and rickshaw drivers are always
there when yo don't want them, much less often when you do. There
often seems to be no sense of personal space or privacy.
Public
Hygiene. It is not uncommon to see people urinating
in public places and defecating in the open trenches or fields.
These can all be daunting and make early adjustment to India
difficult.
Poverty. Especially
when entering into large cities, it is not uncommon to drive
through miles of dilapidated, gray, shanty towns. This first
impression can be very challenging. Within cities, you will see
countless
numbers living and sleeping on the streets.
For
one young woman's graphic story of first impressions, see Jaddou
Unknown.
ATTITUDES
TO ADOPT
It
is important to give yourself time to adapt. Give yourself time
to have your feelings and reactions. Talk to others in the group.
Take it easy the first few days; don't overexert yourself or
get too tired. Some days you may want to take a break and
just stay around your hotel.
Soon
you will settle in and relax into this incredible country. Yet
it's also important to have realistic expectations and the following
attitudes help:
India
is a very intense country and in the same way, you can expect your
emotions to fluctuate between sublime joy to intense disgust to
incredible frustration. Luckily all of this comes and goes rather
quickly. So it's essential to be flexible and easy-going. India
requires you to go with the flow, not with your watch.
Be ready for changes. Often things dont happen as planned.
There is amazing inefficiency and bureaucracy. Take it slow and take it easy.
Learn to let go.
Keep an open mind, and enjoy the experience. India can't be described, it must
be experienced! It seems to be the sort of country that people either love
or hate. At different locales, let yourself just wander around without always
having a destination. India is the perfect place for this because you continually
run into surprises. Magical things can happen.
Finally,
you
may want to pack a journal to record what will be a veritable
torrent of thoughts and emotions during your trip. It will be
a precious document for remembering and integrating it all after
you return home.